| Location | Manchester |
| Age | 55 years |
| Date of Birth | 02/10/1953 |
| Date of Death | 15/01/2009 |
| Visitors | 1,573 since 17/01/2009 |
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12 MONTH ANNIVERSARY
My darling Paddy I can't believe it is 12 months since that tragic day. I am hurting so, so much. I went to the cemetary today to see you with Scott, Sarah, Logan and Tilly, your gravestone has now been put on it is beautiful, only what you deserve. I am missing you so much, my heart is broken in two. I will always hold you close within my heart. Good night and God bless my darling until we meet again. Your heartbroken wife Eileen xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
MISSING YOU SO, SO MUCH
Well my darling Paddy what can I say, I went to the first family party without you last night that was hard for me, it was Stephanie's 21st birthday party. You were missed so, so much. When certain records came on I expected to turn around and see you doing your twinkle toes dance. Something we will never see again. I will love and miss you always. Your heartbroken wife Eileen xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO, SO MUCH
My darling Paddy I am missing you so, so much, my heart is broken in two. It is now six months and two days since that tragic day, but it only seems like yesterday and I am still finding it very difficult to cope with and so is everybody else who held you close within their hearts, if you only knew how many hearts you have broken. I cry myself to sleep every night and wake up in the morning crying. My life will never ever be the same without you, how could it be, you were my sole mate. I love and miss you so, so much. Good night and god bless my darling until we meet again. Your heartbroken wife Eileen xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
still thinking why
days are swiftly passing bye but not one goes past without i think of you and that very sad day i hope with all my heart that you are now at peace paddy till we meet again may u rest in peace x
MISSING YOU
My Darling Paddy I have had a very difficult day, my head has been in a turmoil and I feel sick at the thought that I am not going to see you ever again. I keep looking at your photograph thinking of all the good times we shared and we have had some fantastic times together that is why I loved you so, so much and why we were made for each other. Don and Ronnie are having a trophy made in your honour "THE PADDY CAREY TROPHY" for the golf and they will all be competing for it, I am so, so proud to have been your wife and I am over whelmed at all the care and support which I have received since that tragic day, which I know deep down inside I will never ever be able to come to terms with. I keep asking myself WHY, WHY but only you will know the answer. I knew you were poorly but never ever thought it would end up like this, if only I had known I would never ever have left you on your own you must have been hurting so, so much and not knowing which way to turn if only I would have known. I can still see your face when I came home from work and you would be waiting for me to pass the window, you would smile and wave to me as I passed to go and deliver the papers. I knew you hated the mornings when I went to work as it was so lonely for you as you found it so, so hard not to be able to go out to work and I know that worried you. You worked yourself into the ground and that was part of your problem as you never ever knew when to stop you had a heart of GOLD and everyone knew that. It proved it on the day of your funeral, the amount of people that came to pay their respects it was over whelming.
Malcolm and Scott wanted me to have the service at St. Annes, yes that would have been appropriate as you were born and bread down Ancoats but I knew that St. Annes would not be big enough for all the people that wanted to pay their respects. St. Mary's was a much biger church but was still not big enough as people even had to stand outside for the service, yes this is so over whelming for me and I find it comforting that people cared about you but how could they not you were such a fantastic man. You tried so hard to keep in touch with all the family and friends, with all the phone calls, if anybody wanted a phone number they knew who to get in touch with and that is another reason why people loved you, you just loved talking about old times and getting people together (something you loved). People use to call us Mr and Mrs reliable because any do's that came along we would always go too and have a great time (you loved it) because you cared so, so much about people.
I will be coming to see you on Sunday something I am not looking forward to as I know I will have to leave you even the thought of it is cutting me up inside. How am I ever going to get my head around it. I do get angry then it hurts me so much knowing that you must have been in such a turmoil. I know that deep down inside you would not have done this to hurt us as you loved us so, so much, you have done this in your troubled/darkened days if only I would have known how much you were hurting, my heart is broken in two.
My darling I could go on forever and ever but it will never ever bring you back to me and that is the hurting part as I loved you so, so much.
Good night God bless my darling until we meet again, sleep tight.
Your heartbroken wife xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx EILEEN xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
My Darling Paddy it is one month and 2 days since that tragic day, and people are still sending us cards and calling to see me, I am over whelmed with the support and kindness that people have shown us over the past weeks. They all talk about the laughs and the good times that you shared with them all, they all say what a character you were with a HEART OF GOLD. It shows what a popular person you were and how loved you were. When people talk about you and they say how much they loved and cared about you that makes me feel very proud and I feel as if I was married to ROYALTY. I am missing you so, so much and I still can't get my head around what has happened. You won't believe it your Terry has bought the grave next to you, so we will all be near one another, that is a great feeling but the days have their downsides when I realise that you are no longer with us anymore, it is tragic. I sit and gaze at your picture most of the day and I do get angry but then I realise how much you must have been hurting and could not cope anymore (if I only knew). I will never ever be able to come to terms with losing you because I loved you so, so much and my life will never ever be the same without you, how could it be. Things will get harder before they get easier like our anniversary, birthdays, christmas, new year will I ever be able to cope. I hope so. Good night God bless my darling till we meet again. Your hearbroken wife Eileen xxxxxxxxxxxx
FINAL JOURNEY
My Darling Paddy now you have gone to your final resting place and now at peace to suffer no more. We are very grateful to all those people who supported us in our grief. You will never ever know how much you were loved and we are very proud to have been part of your life. You had a fantastic turnout just to prove how well liked and loved you were. No one has ever had a bad word to say about you. Good night and god bless my darling until we meet again.
Your heartbroken wife Eileen xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
DEVASTATED
My Darling Paddy I cannot express the heartache that I am feeling inside. I hurt so so much knowing that I am never going to see or hear from you again. I keep thinking I am going to wake up and its a horrible horrible dream. I am trying to convince myself that you are still working in Carlisle so that I don't have to face the truth that you are never never going to come back. I am devestated that I have got to carry on in life without you. You were my rock and we were made for each other and we have proved that for the amount of years that we have been together. Yes I will carry on in life but nothing could ever be the same. We had so many fantastic years together you were such a special person. I hope you are watching over every single person who has shared our grief and whose hearts you have broken. You will never never know how much you meant to so many many people, we are over whelmed and it brings so much comfort knowing how many people loved and cared about you, you were a fantastic man with a heart of GOLD. I am dreading Friday knowing that it is your final journey to your resting place. I hope you have met up with all your family and mine so that they can comfort you. I wish I could have done that for you in your troubled days, but is was not meant to be. I tried so hard and it hurt me so so much to see you suffering the way you did. You are now at rest my loved one and until we meet again good night god bless my darling. Your heart broken wife Eileen xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
MISSING YOU
You taught us love and tenderness
You taught us how to care
You bound us all together with a love few families share
But in all that life have given us
And all that's left to do we never had a greater gift than the years we shared with you.
Your needs in life were simple
Your love for your family true
As long as we were happy you were happy too
The home you left is lonely now feelings are deep inside
But as we greet each new day we speak your name with pride.
To have you for my husband was cause enough for pride
No one could be your equal no matter how they tried
We know that now in heaven you'll rest God Bless you Paddy you were simply the best
The gates of heaven opened wide, the Angels lined up side by side
A very special guest was on his way
The day God took my Paddy away
R.I.P my darling
I will always love you and hold you close within my heart forever and ever
Good night and God bless
Your heartbroken wife Eileen xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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